Ruthie Gray is a wife, mom of four, Gigi, and caregiver living in the sandwich generation and blogging to keep her sanity.  When she's not snacking on plastic drumsticks with The Tiny Tornado or snuggling Baby Cakes (her grandbabies), you can find her coaching young  moms to capture joy in parenting at  RearReleaseRegroup.com.  Ruthie is the author of Count to Nine; 9 Liberating Steps for Mom Frustration and Anger.