Is an adult you love having problems with alcohol or drugs?
Have you tried to help, but you’re stuck, alone, isolated and stressed?
Need some help?

I have a wonderful opportunity for YOU!

The Vesta Approach Membership

For women affected by a loved one's addiction

I will help you...

Understand your loved one’s drug and alcohol use, why they are using and what they get out of it

Set clear boundaries about what you will and will not accept in terms of your loved one’s drug and alcohol use

Figure out what you can do to make being sober more attractive than being intoxicated

Communicate better with your loved one to reduce conflict

Explore helpful and enabling behaviours

Know what to do when your loved one is intoxicated

Why work with me?

I’m Victoria Seed and I help busy, successful women recover from a loved one’s drug or alcohol use.

I understand how hard it is to be in your situation and not know whether how you are handling it is ‘right’ or ‘wrong’. You may feel alone. You may not have told anyone about what’s going on.

You may have only just realised your loved one has a problem.

You may not be able to find the help you need that fits you and your situation.

All I can say is that you are doing your best, but I can help you make significant changes to your life.

As well as having lived experience of coping with loved one's addiction, I am a professionally trained teacher, trainer, drug and alcohol practitioner, recovery coach, consultant NLP Practitioner and meditation Instructor. I have helped hundreds of families recover from a loved one’s drug or alcohol use.

I set up the Vesta Approach a few years ago because I wanted to fill a gap for families that would not or could not access local services due to work commitments or other personal reasons. My services are private and confidential. As a professional woman myself and a mother, I have naturally connected with women and have designed my service around them.

This membership has been designed specifically for busy women who cannot go to a group in the evening, or pop out of work during the day for therapy. It is full of value, support and care but is not so demanding of time that you can’t keep up.

Having been a drug and alcohol therapeutic practitioner for many years, specialising in family work, we will be talking about your loved one in a respectful and caring manner. 

I don’t believe in ‘tough-love’ I don’t believe in people having to hit ‘rock-bottom’ to stop using or reduce their substance use. I KNOW there is another way.

Come and join me. 

I can help


Doors opening in April!

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Here's how the membership is going to work...

Your monthly membership will give you access to the incredible content you'll find inside.

It is off-Facebook for ultimate discretion.

You can access in your own time.

Turning up to the live sessions would be your only time-commitment, so that you don't miss them (these are currently on Wednesday evenings at 7.30pm).

I'd recommend you pop into the membership every day to keep up to date, join in, post about your progress and learn from others.

Content will be posted Monday-Friday and I will be around to answer any questions then.

You are free to post at any time and please contribute to other people's posts and share the love.

Content will be delivered over a 12 month rolling programme. After 12 months, you decide whether you stay or go.

This is a WOMEN ONLY group.

you will get support from others in the group too!

You are not alone!


A monthly training video and workbook

A monthly Zoom support and action session

A monthly Q&A

A monthly Guest Expert


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