Unleash Emotional Tethers & Surrender with Intimately Tied
Unravel. Surrender. Receive.
3-Day Immersion | Next Dates to be annouced
Price: $1,000 USD each
No Overnight Accommodation
Deep connection begins with a surrender to all that lies inside of you.
Do you yearn for deeper intimacy?
Are you ready to relinquish habitual patterns of control?
Are you seeking to recapture who you truly are, completely opening yourself to receive?
You can't help but keep peeking at these parts that are calling to you.
It is safe to interact with all parts of yourself, learning ways to fully accept all that you are.
The process of unraveling that leads to the deep connection you crave begins with trusting someone to guide you - body, mind and spirit - into vulnerable and at times, scary places.
In Intimately Tied, with the utilization of Shibari, we help you find that freedom by leaning into the experience of surrender and receptivity.
Japanese robe bondage is a language of its own.
This tool was reclaimed as the art of intimacy. In its historical origin, Shibari was utilized as an ancient Japanese torture ritual, for prisoners of war.
Post war, it was eventually used in theatrical performances, which immediately went underground where it was eroticized and referred to as Kinbaku, which means “the beauty of tight binding”. It’s up to the individual to choose what to make of it.
As a facilitator, it can be a form of “torture” (with a purpose!), it can be erotic, or tender and nurturing. The actual spectrum of play is vast and so are its possibilities.
Close your eyes and imagine what this would be like for you for a moment.
While restrained, the outer world fades away, the inner more apparent and magnified.
You're fully immersed in the body, within the present moment, guided through your innermost state.
What nourishes your deepest need, your deepest calling within this exchange?
What in you is longing to be fulfilled?
How do you want to be spoken to, touched, felt?
While doing so, we guide you through various forms of communication ranging from “you’re the most precious thing in the universe” to “I’m here to brutally ravish you!” and everything in between, based on what you need.
We will use…
Earth or Water.
Air or Fire.
Speeding up or slowing down.
Neatness or creative mess.
Relaxing or triggering.
…all while playing on a bed, floor, or using suspension.
Our non-verbal cues come across very acutely through the way we tie, while the act of being immobilized makes each of us give up our own agenda and become open to receive.
We will use these tools within Intimately Tied, reconnecting the emotional and physical body, offering a safe space to deeply surrender and allow yourself to receive your own personal desires.
It’s not about being restrained.
It's the process of tying and untying - dropping you deep into your body and opening up to endless possibilities.
In my decade-long BDSM experience I had grown used to playing with a multitude of tools and toys, only to finally discover that shibari has everything I need to facilitate a deep experience of surrender. I use ropes to guide my partner into a state of surrender, releasing control and breaking open the emotional potential.
Intimately Tied is the art of tying and an intuitive emotional connection for all participants.
Based on my tantric knowledge of sacred rituals of transfiguration, I have designed a way to use shibari to enter a space of alternative consciousness that allows for deep transformation.
Your Intimately Tied Experience Awaits
Release shame, understand your needs, nurture yourself on the deepest levels and so much more during this 3-day experience.
Here is what your retreat will look like:
You will spend your weekend utilizing and learning various tools such as the art of relating to one another (Kinbaku) and the basic techniques of tying (Shibari).
All of this is done within a safe and consensual container consisting of circle, activity and reflections.
FRIDAY - DAY ONE
ARRIVAL 12:00 pm
PERFORMANCE 1:00 pm
Shibari Theatrical Performance
ACTIVITY 2:00 pm
Introductions
Guidelines
LUNCH 3:00 pm
ACTIVITY 3:45 pm
Intentions
Archetypes
Partners
SHIBARI 7:00 pm
CLOSE 8:30 pm
SATURDAY - DAY TWO
CIRCLE 12:00 pm
Safety
Consent
Association
Conscious/Unconscious
Non-Verbal Communication
ACTIVITY/SHIBARI 1:00 - 4:00 pm
Archetypes
Double Column Ties
The Four Elements
LUNCH 4:00 - 4:45 pm
ACTIVITY/SHIBARI 4:45 - 7:15 pm
Archetypes
Energy
Provocation
Vulnerability
Further Element Details
REFLECTION/Q&A 7:30 pm
CLOSE 8:30 PM
SUNDAY - DAY THREE
CIRCLE 10:00 am
Aftercare & Integration
Stating Your Needs
Partner Reflections
Exiting Reflection Share
CLOSE 2:00 pm
Please Note: All sales are final, meaning no refunds. If you need to cancel for any reason, you will be able to attend another event.
What Others Have Said About Intimately Tied
Meet Your Facilitators
My name is Rina Trevi
I’m not a Dominatrix, not a masseuse and not a psychotherapist.
A Vulnerability Coach is the best way to describe my profession.
My mission is to acquaint you with your own self - raw and unmasked.
My journey has empowered me to proudly step outside norms in order to express my own sexuality and, through my work, assist others in doing so.
I felt ready to step up and dive into my biggest dreams and here I am - offering others counseling and journeys into self-discovery and spiritual illumination.
Creator of Underline|World- Tantric Immersion Course
10 years international Domme
3 years women's sexological bodywork practitioner
8 years Tantric studies in Asia
MBA graduate
Certified Death doula and Life-Cycle Celebrant
NLP / Hypnotherapy graduate
Avid yogi
Oh, and also...freediver, BASE jumper, skydiver, student of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness.
To learn more about Rina and her vulnerability coaching, you can visit her website here.
To learn about Underline|World, you can visit the website here.
Common Questions
Do I need a partner?
You can come alone or with a partner.
Do I need any equipment?
No, Intimately Tied will provide all materials.
What about my attire?
Dress comfortable. Upon commitment, Intimately Tied will email you with further instructions.
What will it consist of?
We will provide a kinbaku-like theatrical performance, you will break out into sessions and practice exploration in both holding space and receiving, diving deeper into intimacy, identity, and vulnerability in ways that will support your expansion in heart, mind, body.
Can I get a refund?
All sales are final, meaning no refunds. If you need to cancel for any reason, you will be able to attend another event.
If you have any additional questions, please email intimatelytied@gmail.com
Join us for this 3-Day Immersion
Price: $1,000 USD each
No Overnight Accommodation
