Let Your Relationships be Awesome!

10 Day - Email Series
Personal stories from a relationship coach
and queer momma.


Hello, I am Joy Zalzala-Soyka

I am 40 years old lesbian and migrant, I am a relationship and career coach and a mom to two kids. Berlin, Germany, is my homebase. Yet, I come from a multicultural family, grew up in 6 different countries.  I travel long term with my wife and kids across different parts of the world. 
Currently we are in Mexico. 

In celebration of the ten year anniversary of my relationship with Jasha in 2017, I created an email series counting down the ten days to our anniversary, and this is what you will recieve after signing up. 

The following stories will give you insights into everything relationship from my life with Jasha, and from my roughly ten years of experience as a coach and counselor on relationship issues. 

Whether you are getting over a break-up, are madly in love, stuck in the daily grind or happily single, I share these stories with you to make you laugh, inspire some new thoughts and give you an insight into how a queer relationship coach rocks her own relationship.

more about my coaching work

I am a life coach for people who (want to) live their individual versions of a great life, beyond the norms of society.

I specialize in working with people in biracial / mulitcultural relationships and people from various lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans* and inter* communities.

As a Law of Attraction Coach I work across Europe and North America, offering you support through personal sessions over the phone, as well as books and articles and resources like this free email series on relationships. 

I believe in deliberate creation, I love turning ideas into action, and following unconventional paths.

I am fluent in English and German.
You can find out more about me and my work under www.evolve.how  &  www.coaching.lgbt