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Imposter Syndrome

Oct 17 Written By Cindy Folk

Imposter syndrome seems to be the buzzword these days. What is it? It usually rears it’s ugly head when you are doing something new, something out of your comfort zone, and essentially means that you doubt your abilities and feel like a fraud. You say to yourself, “Who am I to…?”

I don’t like to label things. Often people hang on to that label and use it as an excuse for not moving forward. I prefer to figure out how to move past that issue or problem. For example, Writer’s Block. If you sit and think that you may be experiencing this, you hold onto it and use it as an excuse. Instead, take a break from your writing until you are inspired to continue. Even so, I get it. It is because of these kinds of feelings - feeling like you aren’t enough of an expert, for example - that people don’t take that next step.

I was having a real moment of imposter syndrome as I mentally prepared for a meeting I had about a month ago. I had joined Amy Porterfield’s 30-day Digital Course Kickstarter bootcamp where I introduced myself as a self-published author who had documented every step of the process from the craft of writing to the business of writing. Because of this, I received a reply to my post from a man who was a retired news producer in the New York area for the likes of NBC and Good Morning America, who is developing a course in public relations for authors. The man has a wonderful web site with amazing testimonials.

As the meeting drew nearer, I found myself wondering what he wanted to meet with me about. I was concerned he thought I had more experience than I did.

I had to remind myself to be myself and to tell the truth of my story. He was extremely receptive and I feel like I’ve made a pretty neat connection in this writing world. But most importantly, by showing up and meeting with him, it helped with my confidence and allowed me to push The Imposter back into the shadows.

She is still lurking, but by putting in the work, I am finding it easier to ignore her.

Is Self-Publishing Really a Thing?

Oct 7 Written By Cindy Folk

I was talking to a friend recently and she asked, “Is self-publishing really a thing?” I laughed because it hadn’t occurred to me that people might not know that it is not only a thing, but it is a guaranteed way to get your story out to the world. So I answered, “Yes! It really is a thing!!”

Self-publishing is something anyone can do. You don’t need to submit a transcript to a publisher and wait months to see if they would be interested in publishing your book. Instead, you can take the reigns and do it yourself.

Whether you publish traditionally or self-publish by hiring quality professionals where you feel it is important or go a more inexpensive route when it makes sense, you will need to get on social media and let people know that your book is coming soon or already available. Since I had to do that part anyway (which was, to me, the hardest part), I decided to give self-publishing a try.

What was difficult though was knowing where to spend my money and how to know which tools were compatible before investing in them. THAT made me uncomfortable.

I would like to share what I’ve learned by developing and offering a course. I am finalizing the course title, but I believe it will be called Make a Splash Self-Publishing: Test the Waters Before Diving In.

It will have modules and lessons on how to write a book and how to get past the fear of whether it is good enough or the discomfort of telling people about it, but it will also share my experiences on what worked and what didn’t as I got my book ready for release.

If you are considering, or have ever considered, self-publishing, I’d love to get your vote on which of the following course ideas would be most helpful.

1. How to write, edit and self-publish a book.

2. How to write a book that sells.

3. How to make a profit writing and self-publishing a book.

Please put your answer in the comments. 1, 2, or 3.

I can’t wait to hear what you think!

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